And so it goes…

Sorry for the break these past couple of days.  Just a general case of the blahs brought on by who knows what.  I know, blame it on the weather!  It done turned cold here in a hurry.  Yesterday was downright blustery and my weather pixie tells me the current temperature is 27 degrees.  Brrr.

We completed the dart season with a make up game on Sunday against Kaibigan of Friends Bar.  We did the game at Gecko’s, which although far from my favorite venue, is light years nicer than Friends.  Actually, my issue at Gecko’s isn’t the playing conditions, it’s the service.  I’d call it slow but that wouldn’t be accurate.  It’s glacial.

My dart game remains as cold as the weather.  I contributed a 3-6 performance in a losing effort.  We did take enough legs to clinch a playoff spot where anything is possible.  Actually, over the course of the season, we beat every team once.  It’s just that our margin of victory in those games was much smaller than the deficit of our losses, i.e. we tend to win small and lose big.  In the playoffs that won’t matter and we are certainly capable of fighting our way to a championship.  We just need to put it altogether, and me finding my game would be a big help in that regard.

Busy at work as well, with several big events on the horizon.  10 months to go.

Thanks to ROKdrop for the linklets.  I feel bad I didn’t have anything “fresh” to offer all the readers he sent my way.  Ah well, I expect most of my loyal visitors anticipate being disappointed which makes the occasional surprise all the sweeter, right?

Right?

Yoja of the week

Well, for those of us who have the good fortune to be employed, it is TGIF.  And as you know, in addition to looking forward to a weekend of R&R, it is time for the next installment of Yoja of the Week.

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One thing I really like about autumn in Korea (in addition to the fall foliage and moderate weather) is boots.  Surely it is not just me, but there is just something about a woman in boots.

I found the photo at a blog called The Real South Korea.  The post notes that Korean women might be the world’s sexiest dressers.  I’ve made that argument myself.  They just have a certain style and grace about them somehow.  It’s like they can’t help it.

Speaking as an old fat guy, about all I can do is shake my head in admiration and say “damn”.

Yoja of the week

So The Last Nomad used to have a popular feature where he published a picture of an attractive Korean woman each week.  Since that blog is now a long time gone, I thought I might take up the mantle here at Long Time Gone. 

Some readers have lamented that I spend more time on American politics than life in Korea.  Hey, I share that sentiment but the sad fact is I just don’t have much to share about my life here these days.  I mean, it’s all good, but also pretty routine.

So, henceforth every Friday until I grow weary of the effort I will comb the internets to bring you a beauty from the Land of the Morning Calm.  Now, I’m not that keen on actresses and models, so you will just have to settle for what I find attractive. M’kay?

Here’s the first:

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Ain’t she sweet?

Sorry, I don’t know who she is, but I found her on a post about Korean women at Pimsleur Korean.  It’s a short but intereting post, so go have a read.

Regarding Itaewon

The Chosun Bimbo has a post/survey up concerning what should be done about/with Itaewon.  Go check it out.

I left this comment which is explains how I see and feel about Itaewon:

You know, I really think Itaewon gets a bad rap, perhaps an unfair legacy of its more sordid past. I’ve been here 5 years now and even it that short period of time I’ve witnessed some pretty signifcant changes for the better.

Yeah, they did the new sidewalks and gave vendors those standardized carts. But beyond the purely cosmetic changes has been a pretty dynamic shift in, for lack of a better word, attitude. Gone are a lot of the more sleazy bars catering to horny GIs and English teachers. These have been replaced by some really nice restaurants, many with street side dining. I think a good example of this transformation is the alley behind Hamilton Hotel.

Here’s the biggest change I’ve noted: Koreans are coming out to Itaewon in numbers that would have been unimaginable a few short years ago. The upscale restuarants make Itaewon a dining destination for more and more “natives”. Hell, I expect they enjoy the food almost as much as watching us waeguks passing by on the street.

Several great western-style bars and pubs have opened recently (check out Sam Ryan’s above 3 Alley Pub next time you are in town). What is truly amazing is that Korean-folk are venturing into these bars on a more and more frequent basis. I think it is pretty cool to see this intermingling (kinda like I’m actually living in foreign country!).

Anyway, Hooker Hill, Gay Hill, the tranny and juicy bars are all still there, but that scene is not so much “in your face” these days. I think they add flavor to a rather eccletic mix and would hate to see that eliminated.

Funny thing, last week I was quaffing a brew at Goldfish (a friendly Filipino owned streetside bar) and some tourists asked about how to find Hooker Hill (it’s actually right across the street from Goldfish). I had to laugh, because even at its sleaziest, Itaewon is apparently a tourist destination.

Cheers!

Locked out

I don’t know about the rest of you, but I could not access LTG at yesterday.  It’s back up now (obviously).

Spent most of the day yesterday playing CIV IV and watching Deadwood.  And napping on the couch.  Didn’t even bother going out last night.

Today I’ll be playing in the International Doubles Tourney at Dolce Vita.  This is the one where you team up with a player from your home country and do it proud.  I’ll be playing with Jeff from Dolce’s “B” division team.

And that’s about all your missed during the downtime.

That was weird

Apparently my blog was hanging up, at least for IE users (I recently switched to Firefox).  My last post was apparently the culprit, so I deleted it and things seem back to normal.  Or at least as normal as things get here at LTG.

Anyway, I’m off to the the Monday night league match against Dartohlics at Scrooge Pub. 

Home again

Arrived safely back in the Land of the Morning Calm.  Pretty uneventful return, although I was delayed for an hour in Columbia which made my Seoul connection tighter than I was comfortable with.  I figured my bag wouldn’t make it or else it would be one of the first off the plane.  Turned out to be the latter.  Sailed through immigration and customs, then frittered it all away by taking the Airport Limo, which took an hour and a half to deposit me  in Hannam-dong.  Next time I’ll spring for the cab fare.

Good to be back.

Juicy bars and prostitution

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I thought I’d take a break from politics and talk a little bit about a story in the Stars and Stripes on “juicy bars” being a conduit for prostitution.  The Stripes story covers the scene up in Dongducheon near Camp Casey in Area I.  I don’t have any first hand knowledge of that bar district, but GI Korea at ROKdrop offers his take here.

My perspectives are based on what I have observed in Itaewon and also what I saw during my travels to the Philippines.  I admit up front to being somewhat conflicted on the issues raised in this story.  I certainly understand and adhere to the DoD prohibitions regarding prostitution.  However, I’m not at all convinced that the “human trafficing” aspect is as widespread as this story would lead you to believe.  For me at least there is a huge difference in a woman choosing to be a prostitute as opposed to being forced to do so.  While that may sound obvious, the line can sometimes get fuzzy.  Now, I have never met anyone working in the bars in Itaewon or the Philippineswho wasn’t doing so by choice.  On the other hand, I’ve met more than a few who were working in the bars because they had no other choice.  Yes, you could choose not to work the bars but for some that means choosing not to feed your family.  Some choice, huh?

As I mentioned above my experience is limited to Itaewon.  And I think the bars like those mentioned in the Stripes article probably only exist here up on “hooker hill”.  And those are all off limits to DoD personnel and regulary patrolled by the MPs and Korean police.  I expect some soldiers break the rules of course, but I’m guessing that’s not the clientele keeping these joints in business. So, I don’t think you can fault the actions taken or otherwise blame USFK for whatever overt prostitution still taking place in Itaewon.

Before we get into my critique of the Stripes article, let’s begin with some definitions and a caveat.  A juicy bar is a bar where a young woman (degrees of attractiveness vary) will sit and keep you company as long as you are buying her drinks.  These drinks are expensive (at least W10,000 but usually W20,000 in Itaewon) and normally consists of juice and little or no alcohol.  So, you meet juicy girls in juicy bars.  Some juicy bars also provide sex for a price (either on or off premises), others do not.   I am not aware of any bar openly selling sex in addition to juice that is not on the off limits list for Itaewon. 

Which is not to say that a juicy girl in a “legit” bar won’t engage in sex, but it would be more along the lines of a personal transaction without the knowledge or participation of the bar.  I don’t know if that makes it anymore prostitution than does spending lots of money on a traditional date with a “regular” girl that ends in lovemaking.   Perhaps we all have our price in that regard.

Not all juicy bars are created equal.  Some are sleazy like those pictured in the Stripes article.  Others are quite upscale with very attractive women elegantly dressed (meaning sexy, not slutty).  I’d say there are more of the latter type in Itaewon.  Also, at most Itaewon bars and pubs the staff will gladly accept a drink offer from a customer.  Some (like Dolce Vita) charge the regular price, others charge W10,000.  I make a distinction here because these bars aren’t selling juice and generally the bargirl stays on her side of the bar.  For example, I sometimes buy the bartender a drink in lieu of a tip.

The caveat is that I’m no expert in that I rarely visit “juicy bars”, usually only in a “boys night out” setting, and I never buy W20,000 drinks which puts me in the unpopular “cheap Charlie” category.  So, since I won’t pop for an expensive drink it is unlikely that I would be solicited for anything more pricey on the “menu” if you get my meaning.  Having said that, I have lived here almost 5 years and have friends and acquaintences more well versed in the juicy scene than I, so I also speak with the benefit of that vicarious experience.

Ok then, on to the article:

Prostitution and indentured servitude are everyday realities at many of these popular hangouts for American soldiers, according to past and present bar girls, many of whom were enticed from the Philippines to work in the South Korean bars with false promises that they could earn legitimate incomes as singers and entertainers.

“If you don’t sell a lot of drinks, [the bar owners] are going to push you to go out with a customer to make money,” said Jenny, a former bar girl who asked not to be fully identified. “I was shocked the first night I worked there.”

Ok, well at least in Itaewon all the legit juicy bars I’ve seen (not off limits) employ Koreans.  The only exploited Filipinas I’ve met here are the ones who came to Korea as “mail order” brides to Korean men.  I’ve heard some real horror stories about that.

Almost every Filipina I encountered in the Philippines was looking for a way out.  Many, after the briefest acquaintance, were asking me to “sponsor” them to come to Korea, no strings attached.  Of course I declined to help someone circumvent Korean immigration laws, but I question if these folks so desperate to escape the crushing poverty and hopelessness of their lives really don’t know what being an “entertainer” in Korea entails.  Again, acknowledging that there are exceptions, I don’t believe the majority of these young women are being forced into sexual slavery.

And it’s all happening right under the noses of U.S. military officials and the South Korean and Philippine governments, women’s advocacy groups assert.

“Three governments are to be blamed for their irresponsibility,” said Yu Young-nim, director of My Sister’s Place, a social service agency that helps Philippine bar girls forced into prostitution in South Korea. “The Philippine government for not working hard to create job opportunities for its poor people, the Korean government for not managing and controlling jobs [given to immigrants] and the U.S. government for neglecting its responsibility to supervise its soldiers and for not helping these victims.”

Sorry, I think that is an unfair burden to lay at the doorstep of government.  Hell, most of the “progressive” governments in Europe have thrown in the towel and legalized/regulated the prostitution industry.  I certainly don’t think that closing all juicy bars is going to solve anything.  USFK does a decent job monitoring the bars for illicit activites and places those found in violation of DoD regualtions off limits.  Korea is a soveriegn nation and is responsible for enforcing its own immigration and anti-prostitution laws.  Well, they are about as good at doing so as the USA is within its own borders.  Most of the Filipinas I know in Korea are here illegally.  And prostitution is rampant throughout Korea, not just around U.S. military bases.  Hell, it’s not even that well hidden.  You have the notorious glass houses, the double pole barber shops, and the room salons pretty much everywhere you go.  And most of these are catering to Korean men, not foreigners.

And then there is the Philippines.  Prostitution, although technically illegal,  is big business there.  And yeah, 20 years ago it was centered around the big U.S. military complexes at Clark and Subic Bay.  Guess what, those places are still thriving long after Uncle Sam departed by serving sex tourists from around the globe.  And a whole lot of those tourists are Koreans.  So here’s the thing.  If a Filipina in her desperation chooses a life of prostitution (again, it may be the only viable option, but still a choice if you will) should she sell herself for $30 in Angeles City, or 5 times that in Seoul?  To be clear, I am not saying that trafficing does not exist.  I am saying that the vast majority are choosing to use the only real asset they own (their body) to support themselves and their family.  The smart ones come to Korea (and Japan and the USA) to maximum the value of that asset.

Do I feel good about that?  No, not at all.  I spent some time in the bars in the Philippines talking with the girls.  And it was depressing as hell.  So, at first I thought these young women are being exploited.  But then I thought, if they didn’t have this they would have nothing.  It seems to me that if a man can “sell his body” doing back breaking work as a laborer, it should be a woman’s choice to utilize her body as best meets her needs and circumstances.

So, close all the juicy bars in Korea and send the girls home.  Be assured you will not be improving the circumstances of those unfortunates one iota.

U.S. military representatives say they believe most of the juicy bars stick to selling juice — and the few minutes of female companionship that each $10 glass can buy a servicemember. That is why they say they have not put all the juicy bars categorically off-limits.

“There is a constant review, all the time, of all these places,” said Charles Johnson, an action officer with the USFK working group. “A decision was made years ago that glass houses were off limits because … the thought is it is probably an unhealthy or immoral area that lends itself to prostitution. With the other establishments, it’s a case-by-case basis.”

I think that’s the right approach and all that can be reasonably expected.

Once the women secure their visas, the 300 or so promoters in South Korea who pay to import them essentially rent the women out to clubs on a monthly basis. According to a variety of sources, the women sign contracts ranging from three months to a year that entitle them to free room and board, and a salary (not including tips) ranging from about 700,000 to 900,000 won — or about $560 to $725 — per month.

Club owner Cho said their jobs “simply speaking … are to drink together and chat with the soldiers.” In exchange, soldiers are asked to buy them drinks, usually starting at $10 for a small glass of juice. The more money the soldier spends on drinks, the longer the woman sits with him, Cho said, adding that the club and the women split the juice money 50-50.

Well, you know what?  That’s pretty good wages comparitively speaking.  The bargirls in the Philippines I spoke with might make 10,000 pesos ($200) in a good month.  The girls with legit jobs, like working at the mall make half that.  And you can’t get a mall job without at least two years of college which is beyond the reach of poor families in the provinces.  Again, I have tons of empathy for these girls and the harshness of their lives, but I don’t see any real advantage to taking away the only means of a viable income.  I pay my Filipina maid $320 a month and she sends most of that home to support her family.  So, these juicy girls are doing exceptionally well, relatively speaking.

“If you do not sell enough juice, the mama-san who controls the women in the clubs, they force the women to go to the ‘bar fine,’ ” Yu said. “ ‘Bar fine’ means prostitution.”

The former juicy bar employees said soldiers and other customers usually paid $150 to bring them from the bar to a hotel room for sex, with the women getting $40 of that money.

First of all, any bar that allows “bar fines” is immediately subject to being placed off limits.  In the Philippines, a “bar fine” is called an EWR–Early Work Release.  The way that works is the customer pays the bar a set sum, usually around $30.  This entitles the bargirl to leave work early.  The bar normally gives the girl half the barfine.  What happens after that is contingent on what two consenting adults agree to do.

Now, I am not so naive as to not understand that the EWR concept is a convienent workaround to the prostitution laws.  Still, at least in the Philippines, the bargirls can refuse an EWR request.  They only go with the customers they choose to be with.  Sometimes the EWR involves bar hopping or dinner or lounging at the pool.  And yes, I am sure that in some (most?) cases it ends up with sexual intercourse.

Would these girls do this sort of work if they had better options?  Some may, I suspect most would not.  But it strikes me as being disingenuous to claim they are being exploited.  Again, I have not ever witnessed any case of someone being forced into prostitution.  I have however heard many sad tales about being the only means of support for children and family.  Many of these girls hate what they do, but hate the alternative more. 

I just can’t accept the premise that putting these people out of the only work that pays enough to provide food and shelter is making the world a better place.

Yes, let’s castrate anyone who enslaves or otherwise forces these young women into prostitution.  But don’t take away one of the few options available in a desperate life for those who choose it.

 

I knew it had to be something…

Brian in Jeollanam-do has an interesting report from the Kimchi festival in Gwangu.  According to festival Chairman Kim Sung-Hoon:

You know why there are so many beautiful women in Korea and Korean women have such smooth skin? It’s because they have been grown on kimchi.  If you want to age gracefully and have beautiful skin, eat Korean kimchi,” said Kim, a former agriculture minister.

Well, I have gone on record and there is really no disputing that Koreans are the most attractive women in Asia.  I will brook no debate on that point.

Still, it would seem if kimchi was the secret to beauty the more you eat and the longer you eat it, the better, right?  So inquiring minds want to know how do you explain the phenomonon of ajummas?

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From this…

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To this…

So, I have to ask:  How much kimchi is too much?

I’m addicted

I’ve been having ongoing issues with internet access of late.  It works, then it doesn’t.  Have the repair guy and it works a couple of days then stops again.  So, I’ve gone without for since Thursday, and I really get antsy when I can’t play online.  Anyway, they just came out and installed a new modem.  Hopefully that’s the end of my worries.

I’ve been filling the void with CIV IV, but man does not live by gaming alone.

Good night at darts last night taking a first place finish with my partner Mike.  I was on my game and Mike was on fire.  Good combination.

I’m flying out to South Carolina on Friday for a little family gathering in honor of my parent’s 60th anniversary.  Look forward to that.

And that’s how things stand with me these days.

So long summer

Here it is September 1 and it seems that Mother Nature in Korea keeps her eye on the calendar.  Today was *almost* fall-like.  Not cool, not hot, but really just a different feeling in the air if you get my meaning.  And I have to say, autumn in Korea is pretty damn fine.  So bring it on!

Lifted this picture from ROKdrop and it captures just how pretty Seoul can be when the air is not leaden with moisture (and yellow dust).

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2 and out

That’s what I did in the mid-season singles tourney Saturday… Losing to Dennis 0-2 and Lucky 1-2.  I guess the pinoys had it in for me or something.  Actually, I wasn’t throwing particularly well and I compounded that by making mental mistakes in both matches (throwing at a closed number for points. Duh!).  Well, my head obviously wasn’t in it for some reason.

Dolce dedicated the Friday night tourney as a celebration of my birthday.  Folks brought along some food and the sweet corn-on-the-cob was to die for.  I took a 1st and a 2nd place, but that can be attributed to my quality partners (Alastair and Seung Youb) more than to me.  Still, I had a great time.  Thanks everyone!

Last night was the draft for Fantasy Football League.  This is kinda a rebuilding year for me, but I was pretty satisfied with the outcome:

QB-Drew Brees/David Garrard

RB-Brandon Jacobs/Darren McFadden/Ray Rice

WR-Roddy White/Eddie Royal/Devin Hester/Donnie Avery

TE-Dustin Keller/Jeremy Shockey

K-Stephen Gostkowski

Team Defense-NY Giants

I think I should be competitive, so let the games begin!

Today is a military training day (basically a break for the soldiers after completion of the exercise) and a liberal leave day for civilians.  Which I’ve taken advantage of for a lazy day at home.

Darts tonight at Bless U against my former team, the Blue Bulls.

And that’s the way it is.

 

Busy weekend coming

Had a nice small B-day gathering at the house yesterday.  54 balloons which looked like a lot.  But ya know, it’s only my body that getting older.

Friday night darts are on tap tonight at Dolce Vita.  It’s been designated as my birthday tourney, which means if tradition holds I won’t be winning.  I might cop a free beer or three out of it though, we’ll see.

Saturday we have our mid-season doubles tournament at Bless U.  It’s in the A-B/C-D split format again, and that seemed to work out well last season.  C/D division will be held at Sam Ryan’s.

And Sunday is draft day for fantasy football.  After an embarassing season last year, I have done my homework and have high expectations for putting together a competitive team this time around.

And oh yeah, 364 days until I reach retirement eligibility.  Not that I’m counting.

The bus trip from hell?

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Or seeing as I took this photo in Itaewon, maybe it’s a tour group headed for “hooker hill”.

Sorry for the lack of posts lately, I had a strange past few days and my mindset wasn’t conducive to blogging.  I do appreciate y’all keeping things lively in the comment section during my absence.

And Duke, it is too early to tell me happy birthday but not too late for me to wish you one!  At least on USA time.  So, hope you have a great day.

More to come.

PS.  If your life goes into the crapper, it is nice to have one of these around:

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I do dearly love my trusty bidet.  Always warm and gentle.  You can rely on it.

Yes, I know how pathetic that sounds.

Tidbits

So, in other news…

Found out Monday night that the best player on my dart team, great photographer (see my masthead), and one of the good guys, will likely be leaving Korea soon.  He’s a contractor with a company whose contract was not renewed, so after 12 years in Korea it appears he will be moving on.  He’s got an offer in DC already and interviews in Germany, so he’ll do fine.  But Dave will definitely be missed in these parts.

Watched a downer of a movie Tuesday night called Two Weeks.  It was about how the siblings dealt with the final two weeks of their cancer-stricken mother’s life.  Sally Field played the mother and gave an outstanding performance.  But the film pulled no punches and it was just plain ass sad.   Made me think of my friend Linda’s final days and what Kevin of Kevin’s Walk is dealing with now.  Mortality bites, that’s for sure.

Darts on Wednesday at Dolce.  Just for fun and practice.  Good turnout though.

Thursday I watched an old Robert Altman film called Short Cuts.  I hadn’t remembered seeing it before (it was released in 1993), but it was all vaguely familiar and by the end I knew what was coming.  Still, it was well made with an all-star cast (before they were stars) and if you ever wanted to see Julianne Moore naked, this film is your chance.  Damn it was long (over 3 hours) but it was good nonetheless.

Friday was Dolce Vita again for the dart tourney.  I managed to take first place money twice, so there was that.  I am still not all the way back to form, especially on the bull shots, but as I said previously, I’ve decided to let it be.  I would love to be a great darts player, and I will continue to work at it.  But truth be told, I’m a good player who occasionally plays great.  Nothing wrong with that.

Saturday was just be lazy, which is something I am great at (see, practice can pay off!).  Sat on my ass most of the day playing CIV IV: Beyond the Sword.  It’s a new (for me) version of the game with a few new wrinkles and lots more civilizations.  You know, my first 3 or 4 plays I couldn’t be beat and had my highest CIV scores ever (including one of 20,000 points).  I thought I was ready to move up to the next difficulty level but have subsequently had my ass kicked like 10 times in a row.   No comprende.

I had an interesting experience at the gas station saturday.  My gas tank door wouldn’t open.  Screwed around with it for ten minutes or so, but without someone to push the release while some other hands were prying the damn open, it was hopeless.  Took it to the nearby auto care place and together we popped it open.  Spayed on some WD-40 and tested it a few times and it seems to be working again.  Gassed up, so I won’t have to worry about it again for a month or so.

Had some Korean friends over last night and grilled up some ribeyes.  One of them said (through an interpreter) that he had seen American movies with folks barbaqueing and he had always wondered what that was like and he thanked me for “making his dream come true”.  Heh.  My pleasure.  I must admit the steaks came out pretty good this time.

No darts tonight.  We are missing two team members because of the exercise, so we had to reschedule.  I’ll probably go out and take some photos for the dart bars series in lieu of playing.

And there you have a slice from my pie…

Grillin’

So, on Sunday I purchased a new grill.

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This here’s the old one.  Still looking ok after over 4 years of hard use…

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…but it was showing the wear and tear on the inside.  Plus, when I entertain it was just a little to small to get the job done right.

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So it was off to the 4 Seasons store on base to upgrade.  Only problem was the damn box wouldn’t fit in either the back seat or trunk of my Nissan.  I rang up my co-worker Dennis and he graciously agreed to help me out with his SUV.

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Here’s how it looks out of the box.  You know, I am not a real handy guy around the house, but even a fool should be able to throw this thing together in no time.

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The instructions make it look easy enough, right?  Let’s get started…

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Steps 1 and 2 complete.  Now granted, if I had four hands it would have been a whole helleva lot easier, but I got it done.

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After steps 3 and 4 it feels like I’m on a roll…

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Man, I haven’t done that much screwin’ in one afternoon since I was 17…

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And in just over 2 hours of work, I done got me a new grill… Let’s try it out!

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Ah, burgers and beans… Yum!

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Dinner is served!  Let’s sit down in front of the TV and watch a little…

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Deadwood! 

Ah, ain’t life grand?

Socializing

Not much happening with me these days, hence not much to share here.

I’m really not all that sociable, but I will at times make a little effort in that regard.  So, along with a couple of co-workers we have established a Thursday night get together called “movie night”.  It was agreed that my place will be the venue for this event seeing as how I have the biggest TV.  So, we have a meal, some wine, and a movie.  If the kick-off session was any indication it should be a fine way to spend an evening.

I started us off with Big Fish. This is one of my favorite movies and since neither of my guests had previously seen it, it was a consensus choice.  I’ve seen it several times now, but I still always enjoy the hell out of it.  Dennis gave it two thumbs up, Corine only one.  She said Tim Burton is just to far out there for here tastes.  Next week, Dennis will bring the movie (he said it may be Ladyhawk, which I’ve heard of but never seen).  You can look forward to hearing all about it here.

Friday night as usual was darts at Dolce.  What was unusual was no one showed up for the tourney.  So, I contented myself with throwing a few games with COL Dan’s wife Shelly.  She’s probably a solid “C” calibre player, but I gave her some tips on cricket strategy that should help her game.  I won all the games, but I didn’t hold back either.  As I told her, I think it is disrespectful to an opponent to not give your best effort.  And she did make me work pretty hard for a couple of the legs.  I remember how good it felt the first time I beat my dart mentor Duke, but it took a long time for that to happen.  Playing folks above your level can be frustrating if you think in terms of wins/losses, but it is the best way to learn how to improve your game.

Last night I had dinner with Dennis.  He has a great place over by Sookmyung Women’s University.  Of all my co-workers, I have the least impressive apartment by far although my housing allowance is higher.  I like my place just fine though and after four years it feels like home.  I went for location (easy walking to my Itaewon hangouts), and I’ve got a balcony for grilling that I could not live without.  In fact, I’m going to pick up a new grill today, as I’ve just about “cooked through” my old one.

Anyway, Dennis is a great cook and served up a fine fusion meal of steak and Korean-style “pork”.  It was funny though, because when Dennis showed Ji Yeon the package of pork he bought at E-mart, she laughed and said “that’s not pork, it’s duck!”.  Heh, learn to read Korean Dennis! (I wouldn’t have known either though).  Dennis also makes a mean smoothie.  So, it was a nice evening.

And that’s the story from my little corner of the world.