Life’s a beach

Just back from a weekend at Sunset Beach in North Carolina. We “roughed it”, staying in a one room log cabin. We had power and AC, but no indoor plumbing. It was a trek to the community restroom, although truth be told once the sun went down I peed where I pleased.

On the front porch

On the front porch

The small but functional inside.  Jee Yeun brought along luxuries like a coffee maker and of course her rice cooker....

The small but functional inside. Jee Yeun brought along luxuries like a coffee maker and of course her rice cooker….

Spent Saturday on the beach with my Korea buddy Duke Gates and family...

Spent Saturday on the beach with my Korea buddy Duke Gates and family…

whenever I go to the ocean I'm reminded of those long ago days of youthful indiscretion.  Like the time my buddies and I went down to Mexico, got drunk, and ran over a Mexican weatherman.  How do I know he was a weatherman?  When he stood up he shook his fist and yelled "sunny beaches!"  Bada bing.

whenever I go to the ocean I’m reminded of those long ago days of youthful indiscretion. Like the time my buddies and I went down to Mexico, got drunk, and ran over a Mexican weatherman. How do I know he was a weatherman? When he stood up he shook his fist and yelled “sunny beaches!” Bada bing.

Anyway, it was a good time sitting around the campfire, drinking beer, and shooting the bull.

It’s the most wonderful time of the year!

All across this great nation the citizenry are in a celebratory mood.  Folks will be gathering with friends and family, there will be cookouts, music, parades, and of course fireworks.  These festivities bring the American people together to honor the anniversary of a significant historical event.

That’s right, today marks the birth of Jee Yeun Lee!  Hey, I understand the USA is also celebrating a birthday.  Kudos to you too!

On the menu at this Kor-Am household:  Barbeque spare ribs, hamburgers, corn-on-the-cob, shrimp, baked beans, cole slaw, kimchi, garlic bread, watermelon, banana pudding and birthday cake.

Joining us in the fun will be my son, daughter-in-law, granddaughter, and a couple of friends from Atlanta.

To set the mood, let’s give Jee Yeun’s special birthday song a listen.

A victory of sorts

Although realistically, it is more of a armistice.  I previously wrote about my war with Time Warner Cable (TWC) here and here. This morning I got a call from the “office of the president” at TWC.  “Joey” explained that TWC’s mistake had been in telling me I had a refund due, when if fact I owed $12.82 for service from May 24 to my cancellation on June 3.  I still don’t agree, because you pay for service a month in advance and I had made a payment on May 10.

Anyway, “Joey” apologized for abuse I had taken from the rude customer service rep I had initially spoken with.  He said TWC was willing to waive the $30. service fee for a returned billing and the $12.82 “owed” for a partial month’s service.  I responded that I was never trying to get out of paying any legitimate debt.  In fact, I had offered to pay the $12.82 from the beginning, but not the service fee.  “Joey” insisted that TWC wanted to dispense with the full amount in recognition of the hassle I had encountered.  So, I accepted.

Bottom line, I don’t get the $35.12 I think I’m owed, and TWC doesn’t get their $42.82.  It’s sorta like redrawing the border at the 35th parallel after three years of bitter fighting I suppose, but sometimes in a war you take what you can get and stop the bloodshed.

I take some satisfaction in knowing that TWC is most likely sorry they ever fucked with me.  Sometimes being a pain in the ass is the only way to get the attention of a bureaucracy, be it corporate or government.    Besides, I’ve got bigger fish to fry if I have to wait much longer on Jee Yeun’s green card.

That’s the way, uh huh uh huh, I like it

uh huh uh huh.

My yobo said she wanted English lessons for her birthday.  Her English is certainly good enough to get her by, but she feels like she misses out on a lot of the conversation when a group of us native speakers are talking.  Also, some folks don’t always understand her, especially upon first meeting.  She has a pretty strong accent that takes some getting used to I suppose.  Anyway, she is motivated to improve her vocabulary and pronunciation and works every day with an old high school textbook from Korea.  We both agree that some focused study with an experienced tutor will help her develop her English language skills much more quickly and effectively.

So, I wasn’t exactly sure where or how to start my quest for a tutor.  I wrote to a friend who is in the business up Virginia way and he advised that finding someone local would be more beneficial than attempting lessons via Skype, especially for working on pronunciation.  This being the 21st century and all, I decided to see what I could on Craigslist.  There really wasn’t a lot.  Most of the folks listed were looking to work with school age children on academic subjects.   I finally reached an ad that was a couple of weeks old that at least mentioned helping non-native speakers with English.  So, I sent an email and was pleasantly surprised when I got an almost immediate response.

Even better, the person who responded (Stephanie) is a kyopo who taught English at Samsung in Seoul before returning to the states three years ago.  Also, she lives only about ten minutes away.  I had Jee Yeun give her a call and they had a nice chat–in Korean.  Stephanie came by the house and took Jee Yeun out for coffee and from all reports they hit it off quite well.  The plan is lessons twice a week on Monday and Wednesday afternoons.  What are the odds that the first (and only) ad I responded to would be such an apparently perfect fit?  I’d call that kismet.

The other reason I’m smiling this morning is that the scale has been kind to me.  Down three pounds this week which puts me at 243.  And it appears that I’m finally making some progress on my middle.  My girth measurement is 45″, down 1 1/2″ from last week.  I’ve also had two people I see infrequently comment on my weight loss, a particularly satisfying measurement of progress.

So, twenty weeks into the LCHF diet plan (with a little treadmill on the side) I can report a 35.5 pound overall weight loss and a 6 1/2 inch reduction in the midsection.  That’s the way I like it!

Onward and downward!  Uh huh uh huh.