Bridging the gap

“The Road Not Taken” is a classic poem by Robert Frost that explores the theme of choice and its consequences. The poem is written in a simple yet powerful style that resonates with readers of all ages.

Frost uses the metaphor of a traveler journeying through a forest to represent the journey of life. The traveler comes upon a fork in the road and must decide which path to take. The two paths represent the different choices we make in life, and the traveler’s decision to take the less traveled path symbolizes the choice to take a risk and follow one’s own unique path.

The imagery in the poem is rich and evocative, with Frost’s use of words like “yellow wood” and “falling leaves” creating a sense of natural beauty and transition. The poem’s rhyme scheme and meter add to its overall musicality, creating a sense of movement and rhythm that reinforces the theme of journey.

The poem’s message is timeless and universal, reminding us that the choices we make in life have consequences that can shape our destiny. Frost’s exploration of this theme through the metaphor of a traveler in a forest speaks to the human experience in a way that is both relatable and profound. “The Road Not Taken” is a masterpiece of American poetry that continues to inspire and resonate with readers today.

One of my favorite poems. It is interesting to look back on a lifetime of crossroads from the perspective of old age. The choices that I made over the years led me to the place I am today. I’m not complaining about the paths I chose to take, but I can’t help but wonder where those paths not taken would have led me. My fantasy of the afterlife is being given the chance for a do-over to find out. That would be heaven to me.

Here in my current world, life continues apace. I did my standard solo Thursday walk through the Naugsol valley and did not encounter any divergent roads, but I did take note of the several bridges I crossed.

Good morning, Easter Mountain!
The recent rains have left some puddles to jump.
A view of the Naugsol valley.
The first bridge I crossed is as dicey as it looks. Luckily it’s only one step, and you are across.
The bridge we call #4 is long and sturdy.
This one was a bridge too far, so I didn’t take it.
I used the bridge called #2 instead.
Back across the river on the 1st bridge and the only one wide enough to carry cars.
That is if you don’t count the bridge on the National Highway. And since we didn’t give it a number, I guess we didn’t count it.
A 7K kind of morning.

And then my day took a turn for the worse.

Looking back on my life’s history, I’m more of a paper plate–easily disposed of…

So, Mary needed additional funds for some end-of-year project or another at school. I found that a little off-putting since I’d already given her money this week, but whatever. They were only having a half-day session yesterday, and she said she’d come for lunch (and the cash) at 1:30. So, I decided to do something special.

I fired up the grill and plopped fifty bucks worth of ribeyes over the flames.
The menu included steaks, corn on the cob, baked potato, cornbread, and carrot cake for dessert.

My timing was pretty near perfect; everything was ready and waiting at the appointed hour. And there it sat. I messaged Mary at 1:40, asking where she was. “On a Jeepney,” was her reply. Why didn’t you just take a trike? “I went home after school.” WTF? She couldn’t even be bothered to message me that her plans had changed. I found that both rude and disrespectful. Needless to say, it ruined my mood, and when she finally arrived a little after 2:00, I just put the money down on the table next to her plate and ate my lunch.

The steaks may be high, but damn, they are delicious.

I wasn’t exactly rude to Mary, but I wasn’t my usual friendly self either. When she was done eating, I packed up her leftovers and sent her on her way unaccompanied. We have had a standard “date” every Friday these past few weeks, and I told her this afternoon that I would be taking a break. It just may be that I’m not cut out to be the Sugar Daddy I thought I could be. I don’t expect to be worshipped or placed on a pedestal, but damn, showing a modicum of appreciation doesn’t seem too much to ask. We’ll see how I feel about it next week.

How about that? Two poems in one day!

After Mary departed, I baked some brownies to take to Jen at Whiskey Girl as a belated birthday offering. I packed in some Oreo (yep, I initially typed an “a” again) cookies to make sure there was enough dessert to go around. I arrived a little after the 5:00 p.m. opening and was the only customer. Jen took my drink order while I perused the Shamobli’s pizza menu on the table. She brought my beer and sat down beside me. I asked if she was hungry, and she said, “no.” I gave her the brownies and cookies, and she thanked me and then set them aside. You’re not going to share them? No, she wanted to take them home with her.

Well, it was her gift to do with as she pleased. I had anticipated a party among the girls with some pizza and sweets, but apparently, that’s not the type of relationship the girls have at Whiskey Girl. Very unusual. So, I set about taking full advantage of the “buy one, get one” happy hour pricing and kept Jen’s drink glass full too. I wasn’t in the best of moods, and Jen noticed that right away. She gave me a cuddle and a back rub to relieve my stress.

I stayed long enough to pay for three beers and drink six, then said goodnight to Jen and departed. Crossed the highway successfully and made Sloppy Joe’s my nightcap venue. Chris and his girl were just leaving and invited me to join them at the Annex Bar. I briefly considered it, then declined because I didn’t feel like making the longish walk and crossing the highway again to get there. I had a couple more beers and watched the traffic roll by. Oh, the food vendor from Wednesday’s Blue Butterfly spoiled goods episode stood outside but had the good sense not to approach me. Yep, I was still in a sour mood.

Grabbed a trike home, had some carrot cake with vanilla ice cream (fuck the diet), and watched some more Lucifer. Just a few more episodes to go.

While doing my title search for this post, I came across something I had written back in 2014 about the difference between racism and ignorance based on an incident at an establishment in Itaewon (Seoul). Heh, back then, my blog wasn’t the lame diary it has become. I guess I took one of those roads Frost was talking about or something. Or a detour.

Okay, time to get ready for my solitary Friday night. There is an SOB in my future. And beer. Lots of beer.

3 thoughts on “Bridging the gap

  1. My fantasy of the afterlife is being given the chance for a do-over to find out. That would be heaven to me.

    If the multiversal, many-worlds hypothesis is true, you’re living those paths out right now in alternate universes.

    re: Frost’s poem

    Years ago, there was a deep discussion on my blog in the comments to this post. You commented as well.

    I wasn’t exactly rude to Mary, but I wasn’t my usual friendly self either. When she was done eating, I packed up her leftovers and sent her on her way unaccompanied.

    Maybe try relating to people without there being a financial component. Sure, money inevitably enters any equation (you need money to, well, do stuff), but once it becomes central to a relationship, that’s it for the relationship. How many divorces are about money, after all? (Test: how do you know whether money is central to a relationship? Stop paying it out and see what happens. Are you valued for who you are or for what $$$ you provide?)

    Grabbed a trike home, had some carrot cake with vanilla ice cream (fuck the diet), and watched some more Lucifer.

    Ha! And thus, you are fully in the clutches of the Dark One!

    re: Beethoven meme

    The crowded greeted him with deafening applause, I’m sure.

  2. Uh…

    You commented as well.

    That sounds rude. How about this:

    You were part of that conversation.

  3. Kevin, re: multiverses–that’s cool! So, my mission in the afterlife will be to visit my alternate universes for all eternity. Sounds like a plan!

    I had totally forgotten your unfavorable review of Frost’s poem. As I re-read that post just now, I’m thinking, “Yeah, but…” so it was nice to see I made those points in my comment all those years ago. I think what a poem says and it’s meaning are subject to the interpretation of the individual reader. Our different takes on this poem seems to confirm that.

    About Mary–I wasn’t upset about the money so much as it was about her being unapologetically late. But as to your larger point, I’ve had similar thoughts of late–maybe I should just quit being that guy who comes to the rescue and see what happens. I expect the result would be far fewer “friends” in need. I haven’t found a charity yet like commenter Brian suggested, but I’m thinking that in the meantime, I can focus my efforts on some meaningful projects instead of being nickeled and dimed to death constantly.

    Your “you commented as well” didn’t strike me as rude at all. But maybe the line about “The crowded greeted him” distracted me and crowded out any objections. Ha! Gotcha! 🙂

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