Thanks for the positive feedback as I begin my journey with Pearl. She really is like no other woman I’ve met here. It’s always interesting as people learn more about each other, even the most compatible will also have to accommodate differences. Good communication and understanding are the keys to a successful relationship. We’ll see if I can get it right this time.
Pearl doesn’t drink but I don’t think she minds me doing so (much), although she does encourage me to “drink slower”, whatever that means. One thing in my favor is that I don’t drink to excess, and I define excess as inebriation. I think the beer loosens me up a bit and I’m more sociable. Hell, I even sing along with the music out loud! I think adjusting to my twisted sense of humor has also been something of a challenge for Pearl. She’ll get used to me. I hope.
Probably the biggest red flag for me so far has been that in typical Filipina fashion, Pearl has shown flashes of jealousy. I’ve tried to reassure her that I’m all in and have no interest in pursuing any other relationships. Hell, I don’t even do the massage girls anymore. I’m really excited to find out where this budding romance is going to lead.
Pearl came home with me again last night. This morning she wanted to do a beach walk, so that’s what we did. Took Buddy along too. Lucky didn’t want to come along this time (wouldn’t let me leash him up), so it was just the three of us out on Baloy Beach.

Had breakfast at Da’ Kudos and my waitress advised me that all the Baloy hotels were booked up. I’ll take that as a good sign that we are on the road to normalcy at last.
I passed some time with a 7K walkabout yesterday. Nothing too exciting but since I have a young girlfriend, I’d best stay in shape!
So far, so good.
When you’ve had your “This could be The One” moments in the past, there were usually warning signs that came along with them. This time around, no alarm bells are going off in my head, so I wish you nothing but the best of luck. Jealousy is probably a good sign, if anything. Just curb your flirtatiousness with other girls if you really value your time with Pearl. You’ve got a good thing going.
As usual, Kevin speak sooth.
Thanks, guys. Let’s see if I can manage to not blow it this time…
OMG! I saw “Baby steps” and thought, my god, he’s knocked the gal up already! I was resigned to the fact that their would be no more bar reviews or Hash reviews and the blog would become a daily look at what mommy and daddy did with baby Imelda Marcos McCrarey. The only thing i was looking forward to was pics of Pearl breastfeeding. Thankfully, I had jumped to conclusions(once again) and was wrong. Keep up those Baby steps McCrarey! Peace Out!
Soju, that’s hilarious. No, there will be no babies in my future. Promise!