Well, I'm a-running down the road Tryin' to loosen my load I've got seven women on my mind Four that wanna own me Two that wanna stone me One says she's a friend of mine
Another day in the life yesterday, with a couple of unusual twists and turns. Here’s the recap:
I visited my dentist, Dr. Barrera, to see if he could re-insert my crown. We both had our doubts, but he did his magic with the glue and the crown is back where it belongs. For now anyway. He said it is likely that I’ll need to construct a new crown if and when this one falls off again. He also told me I’m long overdue for a cleaning. He might be right, I don’t think I’ve had one since moving here.
After the dentist, I crossed the highway in search of a salon that could give me a foot spa and pedicure. Found one, and was serviced by an obese woman who was as unfriendly as she was fat. Oh well, I got what I needed even if it wasn’t a pleasant experience.
My plan was to do a bar review of Voodoo, but since it was only 4:30 I figured I’d kill a little time right around the corner at It Doesn’t Matter. While enjoying my first beer of the day in the friendly company of Roan, I checked my phone and saw a post indicating it was P’s birthday. She’s the cutie I met on a Wednesday walk and wrote about most recently here. The birthday was being celebrated at a food stand she recently opened (yeah, the irony, I know) up the highway a kilometer or so. It seemed weird to go without a gift, so I finished my beer and crossed the street to the 7/11. I didn’t want to buy cheap convenience store chocolate but I recalled the ease of gift-giving in my Korean days.
So, I put a 1000 peso note inside, wrote a birthday greeting on outside, and headed for her as yet unnamed food place. She seemed genuinely happy to see me and was touched by mygift. She lived in Japan for a number of years and I asked if the gift envelope was also done there. She said “sometimes”. Anyway, it is the thought that counts.
I stayed long enough for a couple of beers and some chicken fingers. We talked some and she pretty much told me straight out that she was interested in giving me a try. Wow, wasn’t really expecting that. I went as far as inviting her to hike with me on Sunday and she agreed, provided I cook for her afterward. So, I think we have a deal. She also surprised me by showing up for today’s group hike even though she had planned to work. It seems she is serious. I might be too because those old feelings of fear are returning. Stay tuned.
So, it seems that the Gods might be calling my bluff about wanting a woman to love. Do I have seven on my mind yet? Let’s see:
- P
- Joy (the 23-year-old)
- Reggie (the 43-year-old)
- Maricel (a girl I haven’t met yet, but am supposed to meet for lunch tomorrow)
- Roan (the sweet IDM waitress)
- MJ (my massuse)
- Alma (the Muslim girl from Cheap Charlies)
Well, if I’m fit to be tied to one gal, P feels like the best fit so far. I’m just going to take things slowly and try to get it right this time. Whatever right is.
Well, I'm running down the road Trying to loosen my load Got a world of trouble on my mind Lookin' for a lover Who won't blow my cover She's so hard to find Take it easy, take it easy Don't let the sound of your own wheels make you crazy Come on, baby Don't say "Maybe" I gotta know If your sweet love Is gonna save me
Well, “getting it right” will mean being loyal to one woman and not practicing the “friends with benefits” thing with others. Good luck. Just be mindful of Rule #1, I guess.
Yep, Rule #1 is always at the forefront of my thinking. I’m just getting to know her, and so far she’s like no other Filipina I’ve met her. More worldly and yet more conservative in her moral values. That may not bode well for me in the long run, but I’m not going to pretend to be something I’m not either. We shall see what shall be.
Good that you have some options
QP, options can be a blessing or a curse. Choosing the best option is the challenge.