Turns out maybe I am an asshole. Or at least I occasionally act like one. For the second week in a row I lost my temper during our dart league match. I felt especially bad because it happened at Alley Cats and in front of people I’ve known for years. What triggered me was an allegation that my foot was over the throw line when I tossed my darts. The accusation came while I was playing which was more than a little distracting. And it was a false assertion to boot.
Alley Cats has mats on the floor in front of the boards. I recall when they were installed that they were the standard distance from the board to the throw line–7 feet, 9 1/4 inches, to be precise. So, it has been my habit to “toe up” against the edge of the mat. My accuser claimed the throw line was at the far edges of the tape holding the mat down. I told her that was wrong–loudly. She responded “don’t yell at me”, and I, of course, was triggered and yelled even louder. I wanted a measurement done then and there, but eventually I calmed down enough to continue playing from behind the newly imposed throw line.
After the match, a measurement was done and I was vindicated–the proper throw line is the edge of the mat. Doesn’t change the fact that I was an obnoxious asshole though. I bought my victim a drink and apologized when we had finished playing. We hugged and made up, but that doesn’t excuse or change the way I acted. Ah well, I will definitely strive to be a better person in the future.
We did win the match 12-1 though, so there’s that.
A nice hike with the Wednesday Walkers in the morning hours. Here are some photos of that event:
And oh, look! They are playing my song!
Well, with a name like McCrarey, there’s gonna be an Irish temper buried in there somewhere. Just try not to scream too much at the ladies. I’m sure they’re all delicate little flowers.
One day at a time for being a better person, and everything else.
HaHa, yeah. I’m hoping it was a coincidence that they were both females I yelled at. Hopefully, I’d have the balls to treat a man the same way. Best course is to be more respectful to everyone.
Yep, one day at a time.