SOBservations

Done with another Friday, and now I’m here to tell you about it. The day started with the group hike and ended with the SOB. Or at least, I don’t remember anything after the SOB. Woke up alone in my bed (as usual), so my blessings continue.

We had a new guy join us for the hike. He’s a recent arrival from the UK and more than a little out of shape. I was worried about how well he’d hold up, and those fears proved justified.

You can probably spot the newbie. I give him props for the effort, but it turns out he’s no Martin when it comes to endurance.
On our way to Black Rock
Crossing the river to Subic on the National Highway
We escaped the highway traffic with a walk through Santa Monica
On the quiet and flat streets, I noted that the newbie was having trouble keeping up with the group, so I tried to hang back with him.
A brief jaunt on the Govic Highway
It was quite apparent by now that our new member would not have the stamina required to climb Black Rock. So, I agreed to take him around the mountain and rejoin the group after their descent.
My path was downhill
I thought this easy walk might rejuvenate him, but once we reached the bottom, he needed to sit down and catch his breath.
The walkin’ doesn’t get any easier than this
The Black Rock I didn’t climb
Once we caught up with the rest of the group, it was obvious the new guy was in trouble. Problem was, getting to where he could catch a trike required more walking. He lay down on the ground for a while; then, we headed for the highway. Luckily, an empty trike passed by shortly after we reached pavement.
After sending the new guy home, we walked the beach back to Barretto
Another river crossing
And homeward bound

The new guy made it home safe and sent this message to the group:

Thanks to everyone who made me welcome today and was patient with my plodding. 🥵
Learned a lot about hiking in the heat and the level of fitness required. I have never been so glad to see a trike before. 🙃
Will be putting in the solo miles over the next couple of weeks to get myself in shape before my next outing.

All the best to you! At least you made an effort and now know what you need to prepare for.

And I enjoyed seeing Facebook’s reminder of the hike I was making five years ago:

I was walking through a winter wonderland. Well, technically, climbing. But still.

So, next up for me was getting ready for the SOB. I knew I had some heavy drinking in the near future, and I wanted to have something solid in my stomach before getting down to business.

And I had a hankering for John’s pulled pork sandwich. Yeah, there are a lot of carbs on that plate, but the goodness overpowered my ability to resist.

So, after my meal, it was time to make my way to the SOB. The venue was Voodoo, the smallest of the bars that participate in the competition. Doors open at 5:00, and I was the first customer to arrive. To my dismay, the front row tables had reserved signs on them. I asked the owner what was up with that, and he didn’t know; then he told me to go ahead and sit down. I was being joined later by Sheila, one of the hiking group members, and I knew I’d be buying lady drinks for my Voodoo regular, Josie, so I needed three seats. A bit later, one of the event organizers politely asked me to move to another already occupied table, meaning I wouldn’t have room for my guests. Alrighty, then. I told her I would be leaving and got up to pay my tab. When she realized I meant I would not be attending the event, she apologized for the misunderstanding and allowed me to return to my table.

I recognize I’m just a customer, and I certainly understand the need for “VIP” space for hosts and bar owners. But for people to be able to reserve their seats in advance is unfair to people like me who make the effort to get there early for a decent seat. Yeah, I have to sit there drinking for an extra hour, waiting for the show to begin, but you’d think that’s a good thing from the bar’s perspective. Anyway, it worked out, but I felt bad for causing stress for the poor gal who was just following orders.

It was a good show, and I enjoyed spending time with Shiela (the girlfriend of my buddy Todd) and Josie. Joy, one of the Alaska dancers, also spent time at our table.

Shiela, me and Josie

Here are some photos of the top finishers:

The Alaska team
The Wet Spot girls
The Wet Spot candle dancer
Whiskey Girl dancers
And this week’s champions, the Voodoo team. Well done, ladies!

And that’s all I’ve got for now.

2 thoughts on “SOBservations

  1. A hike that ends with a sob is kind of poetic.

    I guess we can give the new guy credit for trying, and he should definitely be encouraged to try again, and again, and again. Fall down a hundred times, get up a hundred times, and all that. His promise to be in better shape is a good sign. Some Korean Buddhists refer to this as “other-power,” which is basically a vague way of talking about things like peer pressure or, more positively, inspiration from seeing others’ examples. Another Korean-Buddhist term for the group energy that sustains everyone during difficult practice is “together-action” (동행, 同行, dōng haeng). Maybe the new guy felt some of that.

    Might be good to suggest to him a particular hill, preferably a big one. The goal should be just to go up as far as he can, mark how far he got, then try the hill again when he’s ready (next day, day after, whatever). Ultimately, if he keeps at it, he’ll reach the top, and from then on, that’ll be his hill. And now that he’s mastered one, he can go on to master two, then three, etc. In a year, he won’t recognize his old self.

    The Wet Spot girls

    In the pic with the above caption, there are four people. The one on the extreme right appears to have a mustache. Is that just lighting, or is that a dude having a laugh?

  2. Kev, yeah, he seems like a nice guy with some motivation, and we’ll all encourage him to keep at it. After he left in the trike, I caught back up with the group and told them, “don’t EVER call ME slow again!” They got a laugh out of that. There is one guy in our group who does that hill climb thing you suggest. He does it as a workout, though, similar to you climbing those staircases in your building.

    I had to go back and look at the Wet Spot photo–it is an unfortunate shadow indeed. No baklas in the SOB bars.

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