Fly by night

I guess my big accomplishment yesterday was booking my flight to Phnom Penh, Cambodia. I’ll be leaving on 1 November and returning on the 8th, a quick one-week journey. I couldn’t get a direct flight out of Clark in Angeles, so I’ll be making the dreaded trip to Manila. It’s only three hours in the air, and I’ll be arriving in Cambo just before midnight. The return trip leaves at 0200 and arrives back in Manila around 5 a.m. That’s a bit of a pain, but that was the only direct flight available. It’s on Philippines Air, so hopefully, things will go as planned.

It’s been almost three years since I’ve traveled anywhere, and what used to be old hat, like making plane reservations, was a bit more challenging than I remembered. In the old days, I’d look for cheap fares using Kayak, but now it would redirect me to companies I’d never heard of before, and I was loathed to put my credit card info out there on the internet. I wound up booking through Expedia since I know they are legit.

I still need to find a hotel, the one my friend who lives there recommended was already sold out. I will also have to get an “onward” ticket showing I’ll be leaving the Philippines within thirty days of my arrival. Yes, you can extend your tourist visa (which I’ve been doing for three years now), but you must show a flight out when you first arrive. I also practiced completing the online “e-arrival card” that is required of all passengers flying into the Philippines, showing their vaccination history. I’ll need to resubmit it 72 hours before my return flight, and since I’ve not had a booster shot, I’ll also need to get tested 24 hours before I come back.

Next up on my travel to-do list is getting my approval to exit the country. I guess they check to make sure I’m not wanted for any high crimes and misdemeanors. It’s a pain in the ass because I’ll need to get three 2×2 photos and take my passport, ACR card, tourist visa paperwork, and a copy of my flight itinerary to the immigration office no less than three days before I travel (then go back and pick it up). Nothing to be done but to do it all and be glad for the opportunity to see something new. Well, I’ve been to Phnom Penh once previously, but I’m looking forward to going back.

My solo Saturday street walk in Barretto was right at 7K. I ended my walk at Sit-n-Bull and took home a meaty sub sandwich for lunch.

I attended a birthday party for two of the girls at Hideaway last night.

I provided one of the cakes and contributed a pizza to the smorgasbord of foods.
The gals did a nice job with the decorations as well.

I stayed longer than usual and even participated in some of the party games. One involved a banana and another an egg, but the girls did all the work. I’ll leave it at that.

After leaving Hideaway, I saw Mugshots was open for business. Turns out they close on Wednesdays, which is what led to my confusion. Another change is that they’ve updated their business model to include bargirls now. One of them was sitting outside and called me as I walked past–she was the ex of the guy who is now dating my ex. Ah, the joys of small-town living! Anyway, I went inside to have a beer and check it out. It’s nice inside, and I think adding girls to the mix will help business. I’ll likely be back, although I don’t intend to get involved with the gal who is the ex–didn’t even buy her a drink last night. I like a no-drama lifestyle.

Continuing my trek up the highway, I saw yet another samgyeopsal restaurant had now opened.

Yeah, they spelled it wrong. And don’t be distracted by the Christmas directions–we are in the high holiday season now, “the ber months” here in the Philippines. The restaurant is on the second floor (it used to be a bar I rather enjoyed) and right across the highway from the Central Park Reef hotel. I expect they’ll do alright. I’ll give it a try soon.

I had a coupon, “buy a lady drink, get a free customer drink,” for Whiskey Girl, so that was my next stop. I sat in the back, away from the loud music, and Jenn soon joined me for some more snuggling and cuddling. She’s a little chubby, but I find her oddly attractive. She’s also forty years old with a sixteen-year-old son. Neither of those facts is a deal breaker for me. Her only day off is Sunday, and she spends it in San Marcelino (about 20K from here) with family. I’d kind of like to spend some time with her outside of the bar, but not sure about the logistics given her schedule.

It was after eight, and I should have been heading home, but instead, I decided to pop into Snackbar. I sat at an outside table with my hiking buddies and, of course, bought them all a drink.

It’s a hard life I’m living, but I’m doing my best. Honest! (Notice those hats? The girls bought them for future hiking excursions. I think they might be hooked.)

There was live music blaring from upstairs. I asked what that was all about, and the girls told me a grand opening celebration was taking place. For what? A bar? I asked. Nope, a new restaurant. You guessed it, a samgyeopsal restaurant. Filipinos love that pork belly!

I didn’t stay long at Snackbar. I’d had enough to drink, and I have some personal issues there. I’ll see the crew on hikes and patronize bars that don’t leave me feeling unappreciated. Lots of those in town.

And a whole lot more to explore ten days from now in Cambodia! What a life.

Oh, someone posted videos from this week’s SOB contest. I’ll share one a day for any of you guys who want to see the performances. Here are the Champion Voodoo ladies:

And don’t worry, they are safe for work. At least there is no nudity.

2 thoughts on “Fly by night

  1. Why such a short trip?
    I would have thought you’d take a little longer.

    as you alluded to in this and many other posts, your town is getting rather small for you and you may benefit from some time away for a long while…a few weeks would do.
    Imagine all the long walks you could take, brand new walking routes with different people, or alone. Either way , just some time away from the ‘ex of the guy who’s banging my ex whose ex is now lusting after that ex’ would be nice.
    I had no idea how small your town was. or rather, how small your social circle is , given that your male acquaintances are all expats like you, and your female acquaintances are all bar and/or wait staff with whom you’ve already had thoughts of lust with ; and the rest would just be household staff and strangers in the street.
    Small world indeed.
    I guess everyone is in the same boat. Even people who work those fancy office jobs mostly hang out with their coworkers even after work, then families and the few friends they can see with their limited free time. In a way, we humans have not strayed too far from the mouths of the caves and the small clans of close relatives we rely on to survive.

    And then comes the internet.
    Now your social circle is so much bigger online.
    Of course that’s not quite the same as sharing a beer with a friend, but for some of us, this is as-good-as-it gets.

    The long diatribe asid

    Have a great day in Cambodia 🇰🇭
    When you return ,there will be a pool party 🥳 🎉 on Baloy beach ⛱️
    enjoy

  2. Mikey, I had considered a longer trip, including travel to other places in Cambodia, but in the end, went the short route. Actually, even before the scamdemic, I was inclined to take several short trips versus a couple of long ones. Some of that is logistics, and some is having things I want to do here (taking care of my dogs, the Hash, etc.) Since I’ve been to PP before, I think I’ll be able to do and see what I want in a week.

    I’ll be missing the pool party because it is on a Monday. The Hash is having an outstation event in Pundaquit I’ve been looking forward to attending on that date.

    Yeah, can’t argue that my limited social circle compounds the small-town episodes, but honestly speaking, I have a comfort level being part of the expat community here–I guess it is a sense of belonging. I think the positives outweigh the negatives anyway. And I think you are right about most people maintaining similar small networks. Thinking back to my working days in Korea, I was part of the Itaewon/dart league/works on base crowd and rarely stepped outside those boundaries.

    I won’t be attending the pool party. It’s on a Monday, and I’ve got a special Hash event I’ve been looking forward to doing in Pundaquit that day. It’s nice to have options, even in my little town! 🙂

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