Another one gone

Rest in Peace, Rex

Rex Lewis completed his tour of duty here on Earth yesterday morning. I can’t say that we were more than acquaintances and Facebook friends, but I’d see him out and about around town, most often in It Doesn’t Matter and Hideaway. He liked playing pool and drinking, was friendly, and well-liked by those who knew him. He hadn’t been in the best of health, and he was a heavy smoker, so when I first heard the news, I really wasn’t all that surprised. Until I heard the circumstances leading to his death.

I’d often see Rex out at Baloy Beach walking his dogs in the morning. It seems yesterday his young son decided to go wading in the bay. Well, with this tropical depression that has been pounding us, the waters have been roiled. Anyway, Rex had to go out to rescue the boy, and after handing him off, Rex was hit by a wave and knocked down, smashing his head into a rock. He was pronounced dead on arrival at the hospital. Well, if you have got to die, going out a hero is a fine way to do it. Gonna miss seeing you around, Rex.

Last night at It Doesn’t Matter. That’s where Rex would sit to smoke and drink his Jack and Coke. In honor of his memory, the bar set up a drink for him on the house.

You never know when your time will come. I don’t dwell on it so much lately; I just take each day as it comes and hope for the best. When it’s all over, I guess it won’t matter to me–I’ll be dead.

Stop! You’re killing me!

Meanwhile, it is STILL raining here. We have yet to have a break in going on four days now. You don’t get used to it, you have to adapt as best you can. I try to time my walk into town and between the bars to the intervals between the squalls, and I’m batting about .500 in that regard. I’ve also acquired a larger umbrella.

I did the Sunday feeding at Hideaway Bar last night. Jewel Cafe provided the food in exchange for 1700 pesos.

Pork sisig
Chicken quesadilla
Garlic prawns
Tapsilog
Fried chicken
And the lazy man’s dessert offerings
Jen and Mhel enjoying their meal
And, of course, Joy was chowing down too.

I got the news about Rex while I was at Hideaway, and the girls were shocked. They said Rex had been there on Wednesday and had a good time. They’ll miss him, I could tell.

When I left Hideaway, I headed over to It Doesn’t Matter to pay my respects. Manager Ashley was still in tears.

The sky appeared to be crying too.

When the rain eased up a bit, I hustled down the highway to Sloppy Joe’s. Chris was there and hadn’t heard the news about Rex. So, we raised a glass in his honor, and I suggested Chris (who had the music controller) play “Another One Bites The Dust,” but I guess it was too soon.

I ended my night at Snackbar and enjoyed the company of the owner and Lydell. It’s funny how things turn out. I’m so over what was as I look forward to what might be.

I made a batch of brownies for Swan and we enjoyed them with our morning coffee.

The rain obscures the view, or at least alters it. The muddy waters of the Matain River are running higher every day. Not to flood stage yet, but if the storm doesn’t end soon, who knows?
I waited for a break in the rain before heading back home.

It is Hash Monday, and it’s going to be a wet one. We will be doing a street walk, though, so it should be survivable. I’ll let y’all know how it goes tomorrow.

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