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that should be no woman I have ever dated
» Posted By Motorrad On 13/July/2026 @ 12:55 am
why do you insist on hanging out in those girly bars? no wonder I have ever dated would out up with that once we became serious. I’ve been reading your blog from the beginning and I just have to ask if you ever make any local male friends? you never write or mention locals other than women. I lived in Korea for 3 years and I had and still have many more male Korean friends than female. we used to hang out together at the local bars going to 2nd and 3rd round all the time. I rarely hung out in expat bars. I rode bikes with the local Korean bicycle club along with some expats.
are there any other types of bars you and Swan can go to that don’t have women whose job is to flirt with the old expats? if you can’t tell, Swan is giving you warning shots across the bow. are you serious about her? if you are i think you better start showing it and stop talking to these waitresses. Don’t use the excuse that you are helping them by buying those drinks. they did OK before you got there and they will be fine when you are gone.
that’s my $.02
Scott
» Posted By Motorrad On 13/July/2026 @ 12:54 am
Today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday
I rarely comment on your blog but I’ve been following you from the beginning and feel like I know you in the internet way. Have you seriously thought about your situation and how Swan might see you? I’ve read every post you have written and one thing that is consistent is your time at the bars. You hung out at the bars in Korea playing darts and drinking, you hang out at the bars when you go on vacation, and you hang out st the bars almost every night now. I’m no expert but 99% of women don’t like hanging at the bars once they are in a serious relationship and zero percent like their man to hang out at the bars while she stays home.
Perhaps Swan has been watching your actions while waiting to move in. You say that you consider yourself in a relationship but you still go the the bars every night and hang out with the bar girls. I’m sure Swan is not thrilled with that.
Have you seriously thought about what you want in this relationship? Are you willing to stop the bar hopping and stay home with Swan? I’m not saying that’s what she will want, but relationships are compromises and I wonder if you are prepared to give up your bar girls and bar drinking? You are excited about moving in with Swan and maybe taking the relationship to the next level, but are seriously considering getting back into the dart life. Which will mean nights of tournements and drinking and not with Swan.
I hope this doesn’t offend and please accept it in the spirit with which it is given. I don’t know you at all but I strangely care about you after reading 15 years of you life online. I wish nothing but the best for you.
» Posted By motorrad On 27/September/2023 @ 10:59 pm
I’m sending an email for the password. I can’t miss this episode!
Scott
» Posted By Motorrad On 08/January/2022 @ 10:40 pm
«« Back To Stats PageYeah John, I agree with Kevin. You aren’t going to make it out of this situation unscathed.
» Posted By Motorrad On 17/August/2020 @ 11:45 pm