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I was born in the City of Angels

Thanks, Kev. When a pun leads to the acquisition of new knowledge, the world is a good place to be!

I’m probably guilty of using the phone (actually, the internet) when in social company as anyone. It was only after seeing that photo that I realized how impolite it looked.

Well, I survived to Hash another day (today, in fact, back in Subic), but the coughing takes the breathing issues to a whole other level. I hope whatever it is that ails me goes away soon.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 06/November/2023 @ 7:07 am

Goldberg, I am blessed indeed!

» Posted By John McCrarey On 06/November/2023 @ 7:02 am

In doctor nation

Brian, feedback is a gift and is always appreciated. No offense taken!

Honestly, I feel like I’ve been making some forward progress with Swan. I’ve been especially impressed with her unselfishly caring for me during my recent illness. It’s true that she doesn’t seem to share any of my primary interests, but perhaps we’ll find some common ground together. Or maybe the time we spend when I’m not engaged in my beloved activities will prove to be enough. Anyway, I’m not giving up yet!

» Posted By John McCrarey On 06/November/2023 @ 7:14 am

Swan is with me. So, I won’t be violating the Constitution.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 05/November/2023 @ 10:55 am

Kev, on the day of the ECG, I registered a heart rate of 58. According to my Fitbit, my resting heart rate is almost always in the low to mid-60s. I’ve always considered that healthy.

Well, I will also assume all these tests are founded on good intentions. But it has been a bureaucratic nightmare nonetheless.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 05/November/2023 @ 5:18 am

Dan, you are reading it–the story of my life entitled Long Time Gone!

I always appreciate your feedback and comments. Keep ’em coming!

» Posted By John McCrarey On 05/November/2023 @ 5:13 am

Goldberg, Peace be unto you!

I’ve been here going on six years now and have had my share of LBFMs. I’ve never been into paying for it via barfines, but I have had my share of success finding ladies willing to share their affections for other types of compensation (like paying the electric bill). I even tried the “Sugar Daddy” thing for a bit with an 18-year-old student. Problem was, over time, I found all those “relationships” shallow and meaningless and I began longing for love. So, that’s my current quest. If I fail, those other girls will still be around, but for now, I’m going to pursue something more wholesome.

Thanks for sharing your insights.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 05/November/2023 @ 5:10 am

Kev, thanks for your support! Yes, I’ve been behaving and rejecting all entreaties from my former paramours. That’s a pretty big deal for a guy like me!

Slow and steady progress with Swan. She is getting better at opening her heart to me. Now we will see if I prove worthy of her love.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 05/November/2023 @ 4:59 am

If you ain’t got nothin’

The Hash will be pretty much an all afternoon and evening event for the anniversary. It makes no sense to go to AC and just sit in a hotel room, but that seems to be her preference. I don’t understand it.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 04/November/2023 @ 7:42 am

Dan, my neck of the woods is more of a retirement community vibe. But we do have several biker clubs whose members might better fit your description. I’ll see what I can do…

» Posted By John McCrarey On 04/November/2023 @ 7:33 am

Someday never comes

Eddie, I was passing along what a waitress said about the candles in the CR. I saw the owner last night, and he told me that those candles were not intended for that purpose. Coincidentally, he was assisting a VFW rep with establishing the veteran status of one of the victims. The fire was before my time, but I remember reading about it. Over ten years ago now.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 03/November/2023 @ 11:31 am

It’s yesterday once more

Yep, it’s hard to put a price tag on improved health, but if this works out, it is worth it to me.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 03/November/2023 @ 7:09 am

Thanks, Brian. Dr. Jo and Chris are the best doctors I’ve ever had, and they have earned my trust. If this procedure works to heal my back issues it will be well worth the cost. They live in my neighborhood, so if they buy that car, maybe I can bum a ride now and then…

» Posted By John McCrarey On 03/November/2023 @ 7:07 am

Upsy Dazey

Thanks for the tips, Kevin!

» Posted By John McCrarey On 01/November/2023 @ 6:44 am

Made it back home again

Brian, Swan is a sweet woman, kind and caring. While I appreciate that, my selfish nature wants more. She has made it clear that she has zero interest in joining me at the Hash or on my hikes. Even if I convinced her to come, there would be no Joy for me knowing that in her heart, she didn’t want to be there. Swan is a homebody and keeps busy with doing things around the house. She likes to visit her family, who live in the town next to Barretto, and she also does part-time tutoring. She watches Netflix at night.

Yes, she is still grieving and is shy about us being seen as a couple. I’m not sure she would stay here if I changed the nature of the relationship to being solely an employee. Anyway, I’m going to give it more time and see what happens. It certainly has been nice having her around to nurse me during this bout of poor health.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 01/November/2023 @ 7:03 am

Kev, yeah, that wasn’t a normal night of drinking for me–the beer was strong, and hours were long. I’ll try to do better at maintaining some cognitive functioning. I’ll try to manage being “old and stupid” without being drunk! Yes, I remember the $50,000 inheritance you promised, but I’m in no hurry to collect it! 🙂

Yes, there is something to be said for having the freedom to do what you want whenever you want with whomever you want. I get that. I’d just like to meet a woman who wants to do whatever I want whenever I want to do it. It’s good to have a dream!

I’m not sure what’s going on with my back; I’ve just started experiencing stabbing pain at the base of my spine. I’ve got a consult with Dr. Jo coming up. For now, it is manageable with Tylenol.

As to the weight, I figured I hadn’t lost much fat because my shorts are as tight as ever. At least the needle is moving in the right direction; I’ve just got to keep it that way. So far, so good.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 31/October/2023 @ 8:02 am

James, about the woman rubbing my back–that’s her job. There was nothing flirtatious or sexual about it. I was stiff and sore and it felt good and was relaxing. I just don’t see why that should be seen as something sinister.

You might be right about the “gray area” being my comfort zone. I may not like all aspects of my lifestyle, but it could always be worse, and it appears I’m unwilling to accept the risks that come with change. I haven’t totally given up hope that it could happen, but in the meantime, I’ll embrace the things I have and be thankful.

Thanks for the feedback and support.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 31/October/2023 @ 7:47 am

Robert, thank you for the encouraging words! I’ll be fine. Every day is a blessing, and everything can change. I’m going to enjoy the ride.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 31/October/2023 @ 7:35 am

A Hashing good time!

The Bauang township is a relatively rural beach town, but larger cities like San Fernando and Agoo surround it.

I have lots, including some I have grown out of. Almost all “big events” like anniversaries and the like come with a Hash shirt to memorialize the occasion.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 30/October/2023 @ 1:40 pm

Let’s go to La Union!

Drain, one of the Hashers told me some expats go to Bali Hai on Sunday afternoon. Otherwise, it is Blue Cat.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 29/October/2023 @ 12:03 pm

No leg issues at all yesterday. I took the flat trail option and really enjoyed myself.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 29/October/2023 @ 7:59 am

Over fast

Brian, yes, that’s how I’ve always been. It’s like my procrastination problem, but I’m going to start working on that tomorrow.

Yes, I hate that no appointment system. I wish there was a way around it. My regular doctor does offer appointments, which makes her especially special. My plan now is to have my helper sit and wait, and when I’m next in line, I’ll join her. Still a pain in the ass, though.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 28/October/2023 @ 8:44 am

Kev, I’m not sure what the therapy will be; I’m looking forward to sitting down with her and finding out. Hubby Chris seemed confident that something could be done to help.

Yeah, I was virtue-signaling about the syrup. That whipped cream it came with was all I needed for flavor dunking. Oddly enough, after all these years, I prefer the sugar-free versions of Coke.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 28/October/2023 @ 8:39 am

Trying my patients

Yeah, the only places still doing that mask nonsense are the hospital and, as I found out, some individual physicians. My regular doctor knows they are useless.

Well, the doc did say if I’m a bleeder, she’ll have to “pack my nose.” I guess that might mean tampons…

» Posted By John McCrarey On 27/October/2023 @ 6:21 am

Kev, yeah, that MRI experience is so bizarre. Glad I wasn’t radioactive, at least!

» Posted By John McCrarey On 26/October/2023 @ 5:34 am

Thirty years of Hashing

Neil, thanks for the comment. I was just in Alaska last night. I will ask Jerry for some Road Slut stories next time.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 26/October/2023 @ 5:32 am

Thanks for the video link, Kevin. I laughed when he used a Twinkie as an example of a sugar and grain carb. No worries, I’m done with my Hostess sweets.

I know I’ve been eating less these past couple of days, but I haven’t psyched up for fasting yet. Trying to eat healthier and in smaller amounts will hopefully have some positive results. If not, I’ll have to try and ramp it up.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 25/October/2023 @ 10:11 am

Well, the difference is talking shit versus being physically obnoxious. I was offended seeing it, and I imagine some of the women folk were also grossed out.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 25/October/2023 @ 9:59 am

Only a dozen

I need to read up more on the insulin spikes you mention. I’ve just thought of it in terms of calories and carbs. Even a no-carb drink like gin will have an insulin impact.

I do intend to reduce my beer consumption as part of my weight loss strategy. I’m not sure if I’ll do the daily or weekly approach yet. Maybe both.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 24/October/2023 @ 7:38 am

Brian, yeah, that doesn’t sound right. I honestly never paid attention to calories before. Looking at my phone app just now, and it is showing 370 calories burned, and I just woke up. So, it is tracking the natural expenditure as well as exercise. Yesterday’s total was 3141 calories, and that was after walking almost 14K. I’m going to monitor it a bit closer and see if I can make better sense of it.

» Posted By John McCrarey On 24/October/2023 @ 7:01 am