Just say no

drama

I have worked diligently and for the most part successfully at avoiding being sucked into the drama that seems to occur with a fair amount of frequency in the Itaewon bar scene.  I’ve witnessed my fair share this trip but have maintained my innocent bystander status.  With just a couple of weeks remaining in this iteration of my Korea life I figured I was home free.

So I was distressed to get a text message from one of the guys in the Columbia dart league telling me he had been banned from our home bar because the owner didn’t like his “attitude”.  I also got a simultaneous email from the bar owner telling me his side of the story*.   I’m not going to get in the middle of this fight either, although it does not bode well for the future of the fledgling dart scene I worked so hard to build in Columbia.  Ah well.

I just wish people could get along, which I guess requires overlooking annoying quirks or the occasional untoward comment.  I’ve noted that alcohol rarely brings out the best aspects of one’s personality, but taking offense at every transgression isn’t worth the hassle.  Shut up and throw darts for god’s sake.

*This isn’t the first time Dirk has 86’d a dart league member.  He’s basically got a zero tolerance for anyone who does not comport to his standards of expected behavior.  It’s his bar and his right to do as he pleases, although I would likely handle things differently.  Regular customers spending money in your bar on a regular basis is kind of important to the bottom line I reckon.

4 thoughts on “Just say no

  1. Hey John,
    Time to put a bylaw in that states the dart league will not get involved in disputes between league members and bar owners, regardless of whether any incident occurs on a league night or not. I think the IPL and SIDL have something along this line. I recall there was a player in the pool league who was barred from a certain esablishment and after tempers had died down a little the owner agreed when his team were due to play at the bar in question (as visitors) he was allowed in the bar but would not be served alcohol. But again this was something discussed between the individuals and did not involve the league.

    My trip to Seoul has moved forward to the 16th – 18th September, unfortunatly not soon enough to catch up with you. Have safe trip home and see you next year.
    Cheers
    Thirsty

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